Friday, November 6, 2009

5 Ways To Deal With Anxiety

5 Ways to Deal with Anxiety
Her insaan ko time to time anxiety, nervousness,tension, aur stress ki feelings hotti hen.es ko manage kernay ke idher 5 ways likhay gaye hen.
Note:jab anxiety aur worry extreme feel ho,ye anxiety disorder ka sign bhi ho sakta hai.jis ko anxiety sdisorder ho uss ke liay kisi health profestional ki care hasil kerna important hai.neechay di gayi tip bhi help keray gi,of course.but professtional treatment anxiety disorder ko shake kernay ka hi sahi teriqa hai.
1.       Become a Relaxation Expert.hum sub soochtay aur jaantay hen ke hum kaisay relax rah saktay hen.but computer ya tv ke samnay chilling out kernay se sirf relaxation hasil nahi hotti(ye ke aap kya dekh ya ker rahay hen aap ko aur bhi zayada tense ker sakta hai).ye alcohol,drug ya tobacco ke liay bhi sahi hai-ye sub nazer aatay hen ke anxiety aur stress ko relieve kerain gay but ye false statement hai kuin ke ye relaxation temporary hai.body ko jo cheez asal me zuroorat hai wo relaxation technique hai-jaisa ke deep breathing ya tai chi ya yoga—ye mind per physical effect rakhtay hen.for example deep breathing major nerves ko relax kerti hai jo ke diaphragm se brain tak run kerti hen,aur poori body me message send kerti hen ke relx aur loosen up ho jao.
2.       Get Enough Sleep,Nourishment, And Exercise.kya aap chahtay hen ke aap ka mind aur body peaceful ho aur itna strong ho ke aap easily life ke ups aur downs ko handle ker sakain?apni needs ke liay sleep ki right amount hasil kerain—bahot zayada bhi nahi aur bahot kam bhi nahi.Eat Well:long term energy ke liay sugar aur caffeine ki short bursts ki jaga fruits,vegetables,proteins aur grains select kerain.aur saath exercise kerain takay aap ki body ke her cell ko oxygen milay aur aap ka brain aur body best operate keray.
3.       Connect With Others.family aur friends ke saath time spend kerain.work ke saath organized activities great hen,ye sub kernay se humaray bonds bhi deepen hootay hen,aur khud ko supported aur secure bhi feel kertay hen.aur es ke saath fun aur sharing humain happy kerta aur things ke baray me less upset kerta hai.ager aap kisi cheez ke baray me worry ya upset feel kerain tu kisi se baat kerain es baray me jo aap ki baatain soonta aur aap ki care kerta ho.es se aap better understand kerain gay aur aap ko cope kernay me help milay gi.aap ye remind kerain gay ke her kisi ke saath ye feelings kisi na kisi time hotti hen aur aap alone nahi hen.
4.       Connect With Nature.park me walk kerna ya phir woods me hiking kerna aap ko peaceful feelings day sakta hai.(koi aisi jaga choose kerain jidher aap safe aur relax feel kerain aur apni surroundings ko enjoy kerain).apnay friends ya family members ko invite kerain aur un ke saath enjoy kerain picnic per jayain ya waisay thoray time ke liay hi outing per ya phir morning walk daily kerain.
5.       Think Positive.apnay minds ko worry track se off rkhnay ka great way hai ke apni thoughts ko un things per focus kerain jo good,beautiful aur positive hoon.best wish kerain,best dream kerain aur best imagine kerain.

Pregnancy Calender: Information About Changes Occur In Your Body

PREGNANCY Calendar

Congradulation!Pregnacy aik exciting time aur great opportunity hai ye jannay k liay k aap k child ki kaisay growth aur development ho rahi hai.itni zayada pregnancy information aaj kal books me,magazines aur websites me available hai k aap birth se pelhay es sub ko kaisay cover ker sakti hen?
Es ko easy bunnanay k liay mein ye yahaan likh rahi hoon so that u got all information here.es me aap ko ye pata chulay ga k weak-by-weak aap me aur aap k baby me kiya changes ah rahi hen during pregnancy.pregnacy k her weak me aik description hai aap k baby ki development k barey me aur aap ki body me honay wali changes k barey me bhi.aap ko yahaan khud ko aur khud k baby ko healthy rukhnay k liay important medical info bhi milay gi.
 A Word About Due Dates & Trimesters:
Jab aap apni pregnancy ko announce kerti hen tu pelha question ye hi hota hai k aap hi expecting delivery date kiya hai?aap k pelhay prenatal visit per aap ki health provider aap ko expected delivery date jannay me madada kerain gi,aap ki EDD total 40 weeks aur ye aap k last menstrual period(LMP) se start hoti hai,aap ka baby asal me 38 weeks old hai---that's bcoz ap k last menstrual period k start honnay se 2 week pelhay aap k egg ki sperm se fertilization nahi hui thi.
Ye yaad rukhna zurori hai k aap ki due date sirf aik undaaza hai.zayada ter babies mom k LMP se lay ker 38 aur 42 weeks k dermayaan paeda hotay hen aur womens k samall percentage hi due date per deliever kerti hai.
Aik aur common term jo pregnancy k doraan aap k samnay aye gi wo hai Trimesters.aik pregnancy ko trimesters me divide kiya jaata hai:ist trimester 1 week se 12 week k end tak hota hai,second trimester 13 week se 26 week k end tak hota hai aur third trimester week 27 se pregnancy k end tak hota hai.
Getting Started:
Apni pregnancy k her week ko check kerain ye dekhnay k liay k aap k baby ki kaisay development ho rahi hai aur ye bhi k aap me kiya changes ah rahi hen!
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week 1

PREGNANCY Calendar
WEEK 1    WEEK 1    WEEK 1    WEEK 1 . . .
Your Baby's Development:
Ye pelha week actually aap ka menstrual period hai.kuin k aap ki expected delivery date(EDD) aap k last period k first day se hi calculate ki jaati hai,ye week bhi aap ki pregnancy k 40 weeks me shamil hai but abhi aap ka baby conceive bhi nahi hua.
Your Body:
Pregnancy k doraan aap ki healthy habits aur aap k baby ki health sath saath chalti hai.pregnacy se pelhay se hi aap apni body ko motherhood k liay prepare ker k rukhain,pregnancy se pelhay aap ko chahiay:
  • Alcohol,drugs,aur tobacco ki cheezoon se avoid kerain,ye cheezain birth defects paeda kerti han jaisay k faetal alcohol syndrome,respiratory problems(saans ki prblms),buchay k weight me kaami aur doseri health ki problems.
  • Apnay doctors se es baray me baat kerain k kon si medicine(drugs) aap doctor k mashveray se(prescription) lay rahi hen aur kon si mashveray k baghairr(nonprescription OTC).aap ko khaas ahtiyaat kerni ho gi k aap kon si medicine use ker rahi hen ya over-the-counter medicine aap k foetus(baby uder development) ko negatively effect ker sakti hen.lakin doctor ki prescripe ki hui medicines aap health care provider k mashveray k binna mat choorain.
  • Aisi diet use kerain jis me vitamins aur khaas torr per folic acid ki adequate amount ho.jo womens pregnant honnay wali hoon wo daily 400 mirograms folic acid per day use kerain,folic acid ka intake baby k brain ki aur spinal cord ki incomplete development k risk ko kam kerta hai jaisa k spinal bifida.apnay health care provider se folic acid proper amount me lainay ki zuror baat kerain jab aap pregnant honnay wali hoon
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PREGNANCY Calendar
WEEK 2    WEEK 2    WEEK 2    WEEK 2 . . .
Your Baby's Development:
Ye shahid aap ko ajeeb lugay,but u r still not pregnant!es week k end me aap k egg ki fertilization sperm se ho gi—fertilization k barey me mazeed ap nichay body section me perhaan gi.
Aap k baby ki gender fertilization k time determine ho gi.46 chromosomes jo k genetic material bunnatay hen,sirf 2—aik egg ki teruf se aur aik sperm ki teruf se---baby ki sex determine kertay hen.ye sex chromosomes k name se jannay jatay hen.her egg k pass aik X chromosome hota hai aur her normal sperm k pass aik X ya aik Y chromosome hota hai.ager wo sperm jo aap k egg k saath fertilize ker raha hai X chromosome rukhta hai then u will hv a girl,aur ager sperm k pass Y chromosome hai jo aap k egg k sath fertilize ker raha hai then u’ll hv a boy.
Your Body:
Aap ki uterine lining jo k baby ko nourish kerti hai wo develop ho rahi hai aur aap ki body aik hormone secrets ker rahi hai follicle-stimulating hormone(FSH).jo k aik egg ko mature kernay k liay release hota hai.es week k end me aap apnay mestrual cycle k midpoint per hoon gi(ager aap ka regular 28-day cycle hai),aur ovulation ho gi(aap ki overy egg ko fallopian tube me release ker day gi).
Ye wo time hai jab aap pregnant honnay wali hen.ager aap sexual intercourse kerti hen uss time ki protection keray binna jab aap ne ovulate kiya,aap pregnant ho sakti hen,aap ka partner millions of sperms ejaculate kert hai jo k vagina k through travel kertay hen,aur un me se hundred fallopian tube me chalay jatay hen jahaan aap ka egg wait ker raha hota hai.un sub me se sirf aik egg aam torr per egg me penetrate kerta hai,aur fertilization hoti hi.jab ye hota hai aap pregnant ho jati hen—although abhi tak aap me koi body change nahi ho raha hota.
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week 3

PREGNANCY Calendar
WEEK 3    WEEK 3    WEEK 3    WEEK 3 . . .
Your Baby's Development:
Even aap ko abhi tak ye fel nahi ho ga that u r pregnant,lakin aap k ander baby grow bhi ker raha hai aur development bhi!although abhi aap ki pregnancy start hui hai ,lakin qaam ker rah/rahi hai.fertilized egg ki kaheen divisions hoti hen.taqreebun fertilization k 30 hours k bahud,ye 2 cells me divide hota hai,phir 4 cells me,phir 8 me aur phir ye countinues divide hota rahta hai aur fallopian tube se uterus me chala jaata hai.jab ye uterus me hota hai tu ye cells ka group aik tiny ball ki tara nazer aata hai jis ko morula kahtay hen.
Ab morula hollow ho jata hai aur es me fluid fill ho jata hai—ab ye blastocyst kahlata hai.es week k end per,blastcysts khud ko endometrium(uterus ki lining) se attach ker laita hai.ye implantation kahlata hai.ye implantation uterus se aik important connection hai—ye uterus ki lining(endometrium) foetus developing embryo ko nutrients provide kerti hai aur wastes ko remove kerti hai.waqt k saath ye plantation site placenta me develop ho jaati hai.
Your Body:
Pregnant women ka adequate quantity me folic acid,calcium,protein,aur iron lenay baby ko nourish kernay k liay bahot zuroori hai.folic acid jo k aap pregnancy k start honnay se pelhay hi lay rahi hen aik khaas torr per important hai kuin k ye neural tube(wo structure jis se brain aur spinal cord buntay hen,jo k pregnancy k bahot early bunnti hai.
Protein ka intake pregnancy k doraan increase ker daina chahiay bcoz ye new tissues bunnanay me use hota hai.es k saath calcium bones aur teeth ki development k liay bahot zuroori hai,so ye yaqeen ker lain k aap dairy products,leafy gren vegetables,aur legumes ki good dose lay rahi hen.iron pregnancy k doraan bajoot zuroori hai bcoz continual baby ka blood volume increase ho raha hai.iron k achay sources red meat,legumes,eggs,aur leafy green vegetables hen.
sources red meat,legumes,eggs,aur leafy green vegetables hen.
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PREGNANCY Calendar
WEEK 4    WEEK 4    WEEK 4    WEEK 4 . . .

Your Baby's Development:
Pregnancy k 4 week,aap ka baby(jis ko embryo kahtay hen) 2 layers per mushtamil hota hai----the epiblast and hypoblast-----jo layers bahud me baby k sub organs aur body parts me develop otai he.2 aur structure jo es doraan buntay hen wo amnion aur yolk sac hen.amnion amnion fluid se fil hoti hai,jo k growing embryo ko surround aur protect kerta hai.jab tak placenta ki complete development nahi hoti aur wo nourishment ka role nahi kerti,yolk sac blood produce kerta hai aur embryo ko nourish kerta hai.
Your Body:
Es week baby uterus me implant honna jari rukhta hai,endometrium me khud ko deeply bury ker laita hai.implant honnay k bahud,aap ka baby aik hormone  human chorionic gonadotropin(HCG)produce kerna shoru kerta hai,jo k uterus ki lining ko maintain rukhnay ka qam kerta ha.ye overy ko her month egg release kernay se roknay ka signal bhi send kerta hai,jo k aap k monthly periods bhi rook daita hai.Kuch womens es week jis me implantation hoti hai k slight free movements aur blood k stains bhi feel experience kerti hen aur wo es ko periods sumajh laiti hen bcoz ye aften uss time hi hota hai jab un k monthly periods ki due date aati hai.
hCG wo hormone hai jis ko pregnancy tests me check kiya jata hai.es week pregnancy test ho sakta hai pregnancy ko detect kernay k liay!hCG pregnancy ki symptoms bhi cause kerta hai jo es week zahir hoti hen.fatique,acing breasts,or nausea jo aap ko ye  yaqeen bhi dila sakta hai that aap k periods kisi din bhi start ho saktay hen kuin k pelhi pregnancy symptoms premenstrual syndrome(PMS) jaisi hoti hen,lakin aap k expected periods nahi hoon gay.your pregnancy is well on its way!
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PREGNANCY Calendar
WEEK 5    WEEK 5    WEEK 5    WEEK 5 . . .
Your Baby's Development:
Ab tak embryo aik cells ka mass tha,lakin pregnancy k es point per aik khaas shakal bunni shoru ho jaati hai,neural tube jis ne finally brain aur spinal cord me develop honna hota hai,embryo k top se bottom ki teruf run kerna shoru ker daiti hai.aik bulge(outward swelling) embryo k centre me baby heart me develop hoti hai.es waqt placenta bhi develop hoti hai.embryo mother se placenta aur es ki finger like projection jis ko chorionic villi kahtay hen k zeriay nourishment receive kerta hai.
Your Body:
Ager abhi aap ko nausea nahi bhi hai tu bhi aap kuch foods se avoid hi kerain bcoz foodborne illnesses,jaisay k listeriosis aur toxoplasmosis birth defects yahaan tak k miscarriage cause ker sakti hen.yahaan kuch foods hen jinhaan aap ne avoid kerna hai.
·        Soft cheeses
·        Unpasteurized milk aur juices
·        Raw aur undercooked meats.
·        Raw eggs and foods containing raw eggs.
·        Raw shellfish
·        Pate(The top of the head)
Texoplasmosis soiled cat litter boxes se bhi phelta hai,es liay kisi aur ko pregnancy k doraan ye litter box clean kernay k liay rukhain.
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REGNANCY Calendar
WEEK 6    WEEK 6    WEEK 6    WEEK 6 . . .
Your Baby's Development:
6th week se aap k baby k brain aur nervous system rapid speed se develop kertay hen.optic vesicals,jo k bahud me eyes bunnatay hen,head ki side per develop honna shoru ho jatay hen,eshi tara passageways bhi jo k inner ear bunnatay hen.
Aap k baby ka heart es waqt beat kerna start ker daita hai,aur even es ko ulterasound examination se detect bhi kiya ja sakta hai.aur digestive system aur respiratory system ki begainings bhi bunna shoru ho jati hen,es week me small buds bhi appear hotay hen jo k arms aur legs me later grow kertay hen.
Babies ki length ko ful measurement kerna bahot difficult hai because un ki legs un k torse (The body excluding the head and neck and limbs)k against curl hoti hen.babies often crown to rump measure kiay jatay hen heat to toe ki bajaye.es week aap ka baby 0.08 inches(2 to 5 milllimeters) crown se rump tak measure kiya jata hai.
Your Body:
Es week common pregnancy complaints full force per hoti hen.aap extreme fatique feel ker sakti hen jaisay hi aap ka baby pregnancy ki demands per adjust hota hai. aur tender, aching breasts aur nausea aur vomiting (morning sickness) ye sub aap ko extremely feel ho ga.jaisay k es ka name hai morning sickness tu ye kisi hour bhi ho sakta hai aur pora din bhi.aur ager noon tak aap ka sick stomach set nahi hota tu surprised honay ki koi zuroorat nahi hai.sirf nausea hi aap ko toilet tak nahi lay ja sakti balkay hormonal changes aur kaheen doseray factors,kidneys extra hard qaam kertay hen tu ye aap ko frequently urination kerayain gay.
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PREGNANCY Calendar
WEEK 7    WEEK 7    WEEK 7    WEEK 7 . . .

Your Baby's Development:
Aap ka baby constantly aap ki uterus me life adapt ker raha hai.es week tak umbilical cord bunn jaati hai.ye aap k aur aap k baby k dermayaan throughtout pregnancy aik connection hai,jo baby ko oxygen,nourishment provide kerti hai aur baby k wastes ko dispose kerti hai.es k saath hi aap k baby ka digestive track aur lungs bunna jaari rahtay hen.
Kiya aap apnay baby ka face birth day per dekhnay k liay besaberi se intayzaar ker rahi hen?abhi tu kafi time perha hai,lakin eshi doraan aap k baby ka face shape laita hai.mouth,nostrils,ears,eyes jo k kuch facial features hen es week kafi wazaya ho jaatay hen.
Kiya aap apnay son ya daughter k saath ball khailnay ki kowaab dekh rahi hen?arm bud jo last week develop hui thi a buss k end per hand bhi ah chukka hai,jo ik tiny paddle ki tara nazar aata hai.
Your Body:
Pregnancy se aap ki cervix me kaafi changes aati hen.es week se aap me aik mucous plug develop ho ga,jo cervical canal ki opening per bunnta hai aur uterus ko protection k liay seal off ker daita hai(aap ye plug tab lose kerain gi jab aap ki cervix dilate keray gi labor ki prepation k time).
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PREGNANCY Calendar
WEEK 8    WEEK 8    WEEK 8    WEEK 8 . . .
Your Baby's Development:
Baby ki tiny fingers per hayraan hoti hen aur toes zindagi k pelhay din ki khush hai.wo fingers aur toes es week bunna shoru ho jatay hen,aur arms elbows aur wrists per bend honna shoru ho jatay hen.eyes zayada wazaya ho jati hen.kuin k ye pigment(color) retina(back of the eye) me develop kerna shoru ker daiti hen.
Aur intestines bhi longer hoti jaati hen aur baby k abdomen me in ki jaaga kam ho jati hai,es liay ye bahir nikaal aati hai umbilical cord k saath 12 weeks tak rahti hai.
Ab tak wo buds appear ho jatay hen jo aap k baby k genitals me develop hotay hen,although ye itnay develop nahi hotay k ye pata lugaya ja sakay k aap ka baby girl hai ya boy.
Your Body:
Pregnancy symptoms jaisay k missed period, nausea, extreme fatigue, aur tight clothes uterus ki swelling ki waja se aap ko hayraan ker day gi k aap pregnant ho.aik bar ap pelhay home pregnancy test se aur blood aur urine tests se doctor k office me ye confirmation ker choki hen k aap pregnant hen,aap ko first prenatal visit call aur schedule kerna chahiay,aap ki pregnancy ko kaheen health care professionals se monitored honna chahiay,jin me obstetrician, nurse practitioner, midwife, or family doctor.ager aap ki pregnancy ko high risk sumjha jar aha hai (for example,ager aap k multiple miscarriages huay he,ya phir 35 se older hen,ya  aap ko es se pelhay pregnancy ki complications hui hen),then aap ki doctor aap k zayada ter check ker sakti hen aur kaheen barr aap k pregnancy course k doraan.
Good prenatal care aap k baby ki healthy  aur safe delivery k liay bahoot zuroori hai,so ye yaqeen ker lain k es doraan prenatal appointments top priority per rukhain.
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PREGNANCY Calendar
WEEK 9    WEEK 9    WEEK 9    WEEK 9 . . .
Your Baby's Development:
Aap k baby k bottom per tail samall ho jaati hai aur phir es week disappear ho jaati hai.es k moqablay me aap k baby ka head grow kerta hai---ye baki body se qadray bara hota hai esliay chest per curve ho jaata hai.es week aap ka baby 0.6 se 0.7 inches(16 se 18 millimeters) crown se rump tak aur uss ka weight 0.1 ounce(3 grames) ho jaata hai.nose ki tip bhi develop ho jaati hai aur eyes k ooper skin k flaps eyelids ki shape me ah jatay hen,jo k aglay few weeks me noticeable hotay hen.
Digestive system ki development jaari rahti hai.anus bunnti hai aur intestine longer hooti jaati hai,es k saath hi reproductive features jaisay k testes aur overies es week me develop kerna start ho jaatay hen.
Es week aap ka baby first movements start kerta hai bcoz ab uss k muscles es week devlope hotay hen.ab ager aap ultersound kerayain,ye movements visible bhi hoon gi,lakin ko aap kuch aur weeks tk feel nahi ker saktien.
Your Body:
In preparation for your first prenatal visit, take the time to familiarize yourself with your familay health history aur aap k medical records dekhain?kiya aap k uss record me aur family health history me koi chronic illnesses,allergies,or surgeries hen?kiya aap abhi koi doctor ki prescribe ki hui medicine use ker rahi hen?kiya aap koi aisa genetic disorder jaanti hen jo k aap ki family me pelhay se hi ho?kiya aap ka menstrual cycle regular tha aur aap ki koi past pregnancies thien?kiya aap ne alcohol use kit hi ya phir smoke kiya tha?aap ki exercise habits kiya hen?ye wo cheezain hen jo aap ki health care aap se discuss ker sakti hen,so ye zuroori hai k aap health care ko visit kernay se pelhay ye informations ready rukhain.
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PREGNANCY Calendar
WEEK 10    WEEK 10    WEEK 10    WEEK 10 . . .

Your Baby's Development:
Week 10 tak aap k baby k sub vital organs bunn chokay hen aur aik saath apnay qaam ker rahay hen.external changes jaisay k fingers aur toes ki separation aur tail disapear hoti hai.internal development bhi hoti rahti haimounth k ander tooth buds bunnti hen,aur ager aap ka son hai tu uss k testes male hormone testosterone produce kerna shoru ker daittay hen.
Congentital abnormalities 10 week k bahud develop nahi ho saktien.ye embryonic period k end ko bhi mark kerta hai---aam torr per,ab embryo ka wazaya torr per human appearance hai aur aglay week k start take s ko foetus consider kiya jae ga.
Your Body:
Aap ka prenatal visit es week k end es time per aap ki life me aik significant event ho ga doctor k office me.aap k series me tests aur checks hoon gay jis me ap ka weight aur blood pressure bhi check ho ga.aap ka external abdominal examination bhi ho ga jis me aap k baby ka size aur position heck ki jaye gi aur aap ka urine test bhi ho ga.aap k es first prenatal visit per aap ki health care aap ko thoroughly check keray gi jiss me internal examination aur breast exam bhi ho ga.ap ki health care provider aap se bahot sarey question pochay gi like aap ki medical history aur family health problems etc.ye determine kernay k liay k aap k baby ko koi genetic disease ka risk tu nahi hai,aik aur cheez aap ki health provider check keray gi?aap k baby ki heartbeat!jis me Doppler stethoscope use ho gi,aap es ko first time soonay gi.
Jaisay hi aap apni first appointment,ghalbun aap ki health care provider aap ko blood test k liay bhejay gi ye jaannay k liay k aap vericella,measles,mumps,aur rubella(german measles) se immune hen,aur aap ki blood type aur Rh bhi determine kernay k liay.
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PREGNANCY Calendar
week 11   week 11   week 11   week 11 . . .

Baby's Development:
Es week se lay ker week 20 tak,aap ka baby rapidly grow keray ga—size me 2 inches(5cm) se 8 inches(20cm) tak izaafa ho ga crown se rump tak.es k saath hi baby ko zayada nutrients provide kernay k liay placenta me blood vessels ka size aur numbers bhi increase hota jaye ga.
Facial development jaari rahay gi jab k ear apni asal position me head k sides per move ker jain gai.ager aap ab apnay baby ki picture dekhain tu aap sochain gi k aap ka baby bahot genius ho ga—bcoz baby ka head us ski pori body ki half length k beraber ho ga!
Although aap k baby k reproductive organs rapidly develop ker rahay hen,external genitals boys k aur girls k 11th week k end tak aik jaisay nazer ayain gay.ye 14th week me clearly differenciate hoon gay.
Your Body:

Baby ko nourish kernay k liay aaap ko weight gain kernna ho ga—aur pregnancy k course me bahot sarey cases me weight gain 25 to 35 pounds (11.33 to 15.87 kg) recommend kiya jaata hai.ager aap pregnancy se pelhay over weight ya under weight han,tu aap ki health care provider aap ko weight gain ki different recommendations kerain gi.







 

Disadvantages Of Masturbation

I am posting this post not with the view to contradict with anyone here on the forum or else n just with the view to share what I know and I just hope that it is taken with as much positivity as it can be n not thinking it a mere contradicting stuff with anyone's view or ideas….



Masturbation in girls and boys:

The  most common arguments given in the favour of masturbation are


1)what if a person cannot control his sexual feelings????tu ye zina se tu behtar hena??

Magar mery khayal mai tu hum ashraf-ul-makhlooqat mai se isse leye han k humko control ha apne upper……aur hona chaheye….agar kissi se ramazan mai roza nai rakha jata due to lack of self control waisey wo young and healthy ha tu koi bhi aqalmand usko roza he rakhney ko kahey gana…take wo acha muslim bun sakey


2)There is not a specific ayat forbidding masturbation?

Magar jitna natural aur easy way lagta he apne sexual tension ko release karne ka tu Allah ne kahein ye kyun mention na kiya keh by doing this u can release ur sex tension until u get married….

3)there is not any proved scientific ill effects of masturbation….??

Well phley tu science ye bhi nai manti thei k zameen sun key gird chakar lagate ha….. scienc sirf wo knowledge ha jo insaan apni mehdood aqal se prove kar sakey….aur abhi science ne unn logo par masturbation ke nuqsanat batey jo zada karte han……tu ye daikhey k human body bohat diverse ha ..har insaan aik jaisa nai ha aur what is minimum for 1 person may be maximum for other…..plus how will we tell max n min…. aur kuch log tu bohat kum karey han masturbate aur ye sub unko ho jata he….

4) this is the method by which semen is passed if a person has not enough night falls?

Semen jo ha wo urine ke tarah ka excretory matter nai ha k jis ko bahar na iss tarah nikala jaye tou toxic material jama ho jaye ga…..science itself says k iss ke bahar nikalney ya na nikalney se faraq nai parta body par.


5)some people argue k g science also tells the beneficial effects of masturbation

science also tells the beneficial effects of alcohol……so what we r required to see is k benefit zada he ya nuqsan….


Lastly ye k ajjj ke door mai tu bohat mushkil ha sirf namaz aur roza se pious rehna???ya ho jana???

They think k aj k door mai jab illegal and vulgar things r sooo common tu banda masturbation k bagair pious nai reh sakta jabke aisa kehney se ap ye show karte han k PROPHET k zamaney mai ye kuch nai that u masturbation ka nai kaha gaya laikan as a muslim wue know Quranic teachings and Prophet teachings are for uptill doom's day so hum unn par na he shak karain… 
"Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.). That is purer for them. Verily, Allah is all-aware of what they do. And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.)... " 24.30-31





What i believe is masturbation is like any of the addictions like ciggarette smoking u start wth 1 ciggarette n end up 2packs per day in long run......

Masturbation hazards on health::::


Erection of the penis is primarily although not wholly under the influence of parasympathetic nervous system/acetylcholine neurotransmitter..when a regular masturbator does masturbation parasympathetic system is turned on that release chemicals/neurotransmitters like acetylcholine,dopamine and serotonine…this also drains the bio energy of brain if done many a times also trigger dopamine-adrenaline-noradrenaline axis to release of these sympathetic pathway transmitters from adrenal gland and changes body chemical balance to  sympathetic pathway…the combined effect of drainage n transmitter release from adrenal gland result in

1)semen leakage or premature ejaculation
2)poor concentration and memory loss
3)soft/non erect penis
4)Fatique
5)Lowback pain
6)eye floaters



therefore Allah created the mechanism of nightfall or ehtalam in unmarried person to release sex tension and marriage itself for those who have the ability of nikkah for release of sex tension in males and females.as He the Creator knows the best..

Masturbation from Islamic point of view:::

Beeshaq Quran mai aisi koi direct ayat nai jis mai typical masturbation ka word aya ho aur roka ho uss ko karney se but agar ye itna easy tha  k sex tension release ho jaye  tu Creator of humankind ne issko karney ka aik bar bhi bhe mention nai kya ...

And those who guard their chastity (i.e. private parts, from illegal sexual acts). Except from their wives or (the captives and slaves) that their right hands possess, - for them, they are free from blame. But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the transgressors." 23.5-7


what I get from this ayat is that till marriage we must protect our piousness n whatever we seek beyond this becomes illegal….in my view masturbation becomes illegal.






And let those who find not the financial means for marriage keep themselves chaste, until Allah enriches them of His bounty." 24.33

Jo log ye kehtey hank e unn key pass finances nai han for marriage n uptil then we can masturbate I feel they must get some lesson from this ayat. Plus ill again say if masturbation comes so naturally why wasn't it mentioned for these people??who cant afford marriage for a time being.




from the Sunnah of the Prophet  (peace be upon him):

Abdullaah ibn Mas'ood said, "We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatsoever. So Allah's Messenger said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power." Bukhari:5066.


humko namaz parney  ka tareeqa bhi tu Prophet se pata chala kunke whole method tu Quran mai nai ha , agar masturbation halal hoti tu messenger of Allah fasting ka na kehtey tu reduce sexual desire…






a narration from Hasan ibn Arfah

 Nabi (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) said, 'Seven persons are such that Allah will not look at them on the Day of Qiyaamat nor will He purify them nor will He include them among the learned and Allah will enter them into Jahannam. They will enter Jahannam first except for those who repent. As those who repent Allah will accept their repentance.
A person who masturbates.
A person who performs the act of sodomy.
The person upon whom the act of sodomy is performed.
A perpetual drunkard.
The person who hits his parents so much that they appeal for help.
The person who harms his neighbors so much so that they curse him.
The person who commits adultery with his neighbor's wife.

This is a Daeef(Weak) Hadith


next quoted material include from
Tafsir-al-Mazhari volume 12 page 94

its narration from Anas ibn Malik….
Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) said, 'The person who performs Nikah with his hands (i.e. masturbates) is cursed







quoted from those after sahaba

A narration by Sa'id ibn Jubayr "Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) said, 'Allah Taãla will inflict a punishment on a group of people because they played with their private parts.'


as narrated by Ata ibn Abi Rabah "Some people will be resurrected in  such a condition that their hands will be pregnant, I think they are those who masturbate"


In the end ill just say k for masturbation sexy images,pictures and porn stuff is either seen or else imagined I don't believe to think or see such stuff is ethical and this only pollutes one's mind….zina sirf wo nai hota jo k private parts se kya jaye … zina hands,eyes and ears ka bhe hota he jab wo ye sub bad things daikhtey han ya kartey han …. When we fast we don't do all these things we are trying to be pious to gain self control ….and masturbation se fast bhi toot jata he …so I think we should avoid what is related to filthy thinking

Plus sum people argue k kisi aurat ke izzat lootney ya bazaar-e-husan ka member bananey se behtar he masturbation …to this I only say k hum mai aur animals mai ye faraq hona chahey k hum mai Allah ne self control rakha he not like animals ke jis marzi par ja kar sex etc kar lain…. And jo log ye sub karte han rape,adultery wo who log han jin ko masturbation ke option ho bhi tu unki sex satisfaction khatam nai hoge….
Humko ashraf-ul-makhluqat banana chahey,thora sa self control,nafas par qaboo can turn our lives into better state…

Agar masturbation ke clear ijjazat hoti islam mai tu aj log ye debate kar rai hotey ke mutual understanding se girlfriend n boyfriend sex kar lain…ye tu aisey ha key aik murder ke ijjazat ho tu log aik aur ka soochain.

baqe jo log iss baat par sticked han like a glue k scientific prove ho tu science insaan ke aqal par he jis ka ye haal he k

aj tak medicine wale ye debate karte han almost after every 5oyrz k desi ghee zada muzre sahat he ya refined oil ... kabhi dil ke leye aik bura ho jata he kabhe dosra

bohat se medicines past mai use hoti rahe han n ppl were used as guine pigs or experimental stuff n in long run side effects aa gaey!!

science tu iss par bhi debate karti ha k hen was born before egg or egg was formed first???

Har shakhas ka apna view ha but maine ye post iss leye likhe k plzz ap thora sa marjin nikal kar sochain thori koshish kar ke ye chor dain…

Premature Ejaculation: Causes and Treatment

Premature Ejaculation

What is premature ejaculation?
premature ejaculation sexual problems me aik bahot hi common problem hai.es condition ko commonly es tara describe kiya jatta hai ke uss point per ejaculation me delay na ho sakna jab ke dono partners mutually desirable hon.premature ejaculation kab hotti hai ye baat subjective hai.laikin kuch men ko entry ke time apnay orgasm ko control kernay me trouble hotti hai.kkuch doseray 5-10 minute ka sexual intercourse bahot kam time sumajhtay han.factor ye nahi hai ke man kitnay time sexual intercourse kerta hai balkay crucial issue ye hai ke man sexual intercourse ki length se kitna satisfy hotta hai.


How is premature ejaculation caused?
Zyada men es problem ko life ke kisi bhi time me experience kertay han.premature ejaculation ko pelhay ye soocha jaata tha ke ye drugs ya infections jaisay ke urithritis se hotti hai.laikin ye zyada psychological reason hai.laikin exact cause abhi bhi mystery hi hai.
Premature ejaculation zyada ter sex ke first experience se hotta hai aur es case me common reason anxiety hotti hai.zyada mard gradually apnay orgasm ko control kerna siekh jaatay han.kuch men prolonged anxiety experience kertay han aur es ki reason premature ejaculation ka longer experience hai.
Sexual behavior bhi aik factor hai.last ejaculating ka jitna longer period hai utna hi quicker young man orgasm hasil kertay han.younger man old men ke moqablay me zyada quickly ejaculate kertay han jaisa ke experience ejaculatory control se associated hotta hai.

What can I do to delay ejaculation?
Masters and Johnson method
Premature ejaculation se fighting ka best way ye learn kerna hai ke un sensations ko identify aur control kerain jo orgasm cause kerti han.Masters aur Johnson method ye kerta hai. The Masters and Johnson method ke liay zyada patience aur practice ki zuroorat hotti hai,laikin zyada effective hai.neechay diay gaye steps ko follow kerain.
Aik bar aap ko uss apnay uss point ka idea ho jis se aap return na ker sakty hon.es method ko practice kernay ka best way caring lover hai although aap khud ko prepare ker saktay han.aap khud ko partner ke saath mutual masturbation ker ke khud ko uss point tak pooncha saktay han jidhar aap ko ejaculation tu na ho laikin wo point ejaculation se pelhay ka ho.es point per partner ko signal kerain ke sound se ya light squeeze se aur khud ko allow kerain ke partially apni erection ko lose kerain.in steps ko several times sexual intercourse se kuch days pelhay repeat kerain takay aap ko practice ho jaye.
  • Aik bar aap intercourse ko try kernay ke liay ready hon.apni back per lait jayain aur apnay partner ko slowly allow kerain ke aap ko penetrate kernay day.jaisay hi aap feel kerain ke climax per han tu partner ko signal kerain ya aik gentle upward push kerain.kuch time ke liay relax kerain aur phir again start ker dain.aap jaldi es qabil hon gay ke ejaculation ko control ker sakain aur sex ko enjoy ker sakain.
  • Although method bahot effective hai,aap ko es ko sahi tara kernay me time lagay ga.yaad rakhain,patience se qaam lain aur situation per zyada pressure mat dalain.ager ap es ko first time na ker sakain tu aik baat yaad rakhain ke aap wo qaam kerna chah rahay han jis ke liay time lagta hai.ager aap ko phir bhi trouble ho tu therapist ya guidance se contact kernay me hesitation mat feel kerain.
Squeeze technique
Master aur Johnson method ki variation squeeze technique hai.es me climax ke point per orgasm se pelhay aap ka partner penis ki tip aur base ko squeeze keray jis se blood penis se out force ho ga aur erection ko reduce keray ga.aap squeeze technique use ker saktay han jab masters aur Johnson method alone work na ker raha ho.

Other techniques

Desensitizing creams aisi product han jo intercourse me sensation ko kam kerti han aur es tara time duration increase ho jati hai.laikin in creams ke use kernay se men intercourse ke liay kam stimulation ki wajja se intercourse less pleasurable ho jaat hai.

Masturbation aik aisi technique hai jo bahot se young men use kertay han apnay control ke level ko increase kernay ke liay.ye soocha jaata hai ke sexual activity se pelhay masturbation sexual ko kam ker daiti hai aur es se control zyada ho jaata hai.ye technique zyada effective nahi hai.

Condoms effective mean han sex ke doraan stimulation ki amount ko reduce kernay ke liay.kuch men ke according condom un ki help kertay han premature ejaculation ko prevent kernay me.ager aik condom stimulation ko decrease na keray tu aik aur uss ke ooper use ker lain.condoms STDs aur pregnancy ko prevent kernay ke liay excellent protection han.

Sexual positions bhi man ki ejaculation ki ability ko effect kerti han.typical 'missionary' position (apnay partner ke top per) ejaculation ki attempting ke liay best position nahi hai.koshish kerain pnay back per laitain aur partner ko allow kerain ke wo sexual intercourse ko control keray.ws position me aap zyada relax hon gay aur easily partner ko guide ker sakain gay.